Etiquette: Loose Language

"Profanity is the effort of a feeble mind to express itself forcibly." ~Spencer Kimball

While it is unnecessary to define "profanity" or make a list of acceptable and unacceptable words--we all know what it is and what they are--it seems a reminder is in order to watch one's language! I have become increasingly alarmed, even shocked, at some word choices I hear from individuals in professional settings.

James O'Conner, author of Cuss Control: The Complete Book on How to Curb Your Cussing says, "Since bad language has increased in our society, it has gradually worked its way into our work environment. "Companies need to deal with this not only as far as legal issues (are concerned), but also because it presents a bad image."

Studies show that swearing

• reduces respect people have for you


• gives a bad impression


• discloses a lack of character


• shows you lack control


• endangers your relationships


• is a tool for whiners and complainers


• is a sign of a bad attitude


• is a sign of immaturity


• reflects ignorance


• sets a bad example


• makes you unpleasant to be with

A good gauge for most is this: If you wouldn't use the word or phrase in a job interview, it is best eliminated from all professional settings and certain social settings, and, may I suggest, from your vocabulary entirely. And remember, "Profanity is the common crutch of the conversational cripple." ~David Keuck